Most people when they first came here didn't automatically divulge their sexual orientation, as though they had to. The first thought that came to my mind as I read this post was that you were defending yourself, against prejudice, against people who might have issues with your sexual preference, etc.
I think you'll find here that we don't judge you on things like if you're gay or not. For the most part, we don't care. Whether you're gay or not will not determine how well you fit in here on the TFP, but rather what will is your capacity for abstract thought and your ability to stimulate interesting discussions.
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I have faith in a few things - divinity and grace
But even when I'm on my knees I know the devil preys
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