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lurkette,
when you say it is specific to this particular woman, i would have to be curious at to the nature of y'all's relationship. how long have you known each other, have you been competitive in some other area, etc. It sounds like y'all have known each other for a long time - do you expect more self-awareness from her than she seems to exhibit? what is your interaction like when y'all are alone?
i've become annoyed with friends before when they "turned" superficial in public, but I think the main reason is that I felt like it somwhat invalidated our friendship. I mean, are they the intelligent person I interact with, or are they the vapid insecure igit they display?
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