well we're both in a highly accelerated honors program, and since she's a year ahead of me she's been focusing on preparation for a standardized exam that is required for admittance into the graduate school. so i can totally understand why she might feel that she needs to keep her priorities geared toward her future. i'll be doin the same in terms of preparation next year. however, i'd still like to understand how i can make it more clear to her that if she feels like i do, we should go for it, but slowly or in a way that wouldn't adversely affect her preparation. i don't wanna take her away from her goals, but i do want her to indulge in her desires, and thus mine.
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