well I've the good, the bad, and the ugly for ya. Due to my line of work, I don' get out socially very often in places to meet people, so I thought, what's to lose right? I've signed up for countless sites, so i'll give you my rundown on them. The good-- I like Match.com and Americansingles.com, I've met quite a few girls through them and have been pretty pleased. I didn't pay for them, i just give out my IM info in my profile schpeal. Word of wisdom,, you have to be clever as these sites will censor out any blunt phrase such as.. contact me at
XXXX@XXX.com. The bad in my opionion are sites such as True.com and perfectmatch.com,, their just bad in my opinion because of the site layout and missing some features the others have such as, who has viewed your profile, last login date, ect... now the ugly are the ones you mentioned, sexsearch and AFF. I tried these and had no luck, I only got hits from people with online xxx sites and such, no genuine people in my experiences. So there you have it, take your pick and have some fun with it all. This whole internet dating deal has really been interesting to see evolve. Years back it almost seemed shameful and somewhat predatorish to say that you met somebody online. Now aday's its becoming perfectly acceptable.... oh what oh what is next for our kind???