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greyeyes · 09-12-2005, 01:15 PM

Has anyone on here tried anything like AdultFinder or SexSearch? They intrigue me and I was hoping I could get your opinions or experiences.

Mr Honest · 09-13-2005, 01:36 PM

Woah everyone's scared to come clean on this!

I signed up years ago and met a couple of ladies here in the UK. Had fun and sex but not long term relationship
Watch out as many of the ladies will be hookers.
Take care and have fun whatever happens.
I've haven't used them in several years and now I'm 99% close to being engaged so they are out of the question!

doncalypso · 09-15-2005, 05:51 AM

I have... it's all bullshit. You can't respond to messages or send any unless you'rea subscribed member, and often the hits you get are from fakes who are just trying to push their amateur porn webpages on you.

It's all bullshit.

AquaFox · 09-16-2005, 11:24 AM

i allways been curious about those too... i wanted to try it and see if it worked... but i don't really want to use my credit card for stuff like that online

ShaniFaye · 09-16-2005, 11:25 AM

didnt use those...used redpersonals.com thats where I met Dave...and everybody knows how that turned out

fightnight · 09-16-2005, 01:35 PM

The ones you quoted above seem to me to be a really expensive way to do what you can do on craigslist.

tiltedbc · 09-16-2005, 04:01 PM

Quote:

You can't respond to messages or send any unless you'rea subscribed member

You also have to look at the membership numbers. One I looked at had 10,000 men looking for women and just under 1,000 women looking for men. I don't like those odds.

AquaFox · 09-16-2005, 05:58 PM

how much do subsriptions do these costs on average?

Johnny Pyro · 09-16-2005, 06:11 PM

I've never been on one, but it's usually 30 bucks a month. The online one that I've seen work the best is "Match.com" My friend went on it and the outcome was good. Three girls! He's not dating them anymore, but he did get to.....you know.

His profile is still up there right now. Its been like 2 months for him.

However my other friend got nothing. Alot of people are on that from all over the United States. He showed me how it worked and I was pretty impressed.

doncalypso · 09-16-2005, 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ShaniFaye

didnt use those...used redpersonals.com thats where I met Dave...and everybody knows how that turned out

Thanks for the link... I'm gonna check it out to see if by any chance I might be more lucky on that site than other adult personals I've tried before.

AquaFox · 09-16-2005, 08:34 PM

what are the ages on those generally? i've heard stories about a big singles meet in my city and two guys my age went and ended up being the only people under 30

i'm about 21

Rubyee · 09-17-2005, 10:25 AM

I have never used one, but I probably would.

I don't like to go out to bars or night clubs that often, so it may be harder for me to find someone if I was thrown out into the dating pool again. I would not look past using those to get used to dating again and get up some self esteem.

DEI37 · 09-17-2005, 10:45 AM

The real problem that I have with AFF is that the price is out of line, really, and you have to pay to do anything other than browse. We use the swinger sites, since that's what we do anyways, and that's worked out wonderfully.

bennystone · 09-17-2005, 01:08 PM

Here is the ONE answer you've been waiting for! The best online personal site on the web is called OKCupid.com. It's absolutely free, and you can contact people through it. I don't know how well the matching service works, I just browse people in my area personally. I've met a couple great girls using it. Plus, the site has thousands of fun tests and stuff to take.

Go crazy!

Benny

doncalypso · 09-17-2005, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bennystone

Here is the ONE answer you've been waiting for! The best online personal site on the web is called OKCupid.com. It's absolutely free, and you can contact people through it. I don't know how well the matching service works, I just browse people in my area personally. I've met a couple great girls using it. Plus, the site has thousands of fun tests and stuff to take.

Go crazy!

Benny

I'll check it out.

AquaFox · 09-17-2005, 08:40 PM

lol, i just did the mycupid thing and i matched to this girl actually was just starting to talk to this month, that i knew back in highschool, very cool

SiNai · 09-18-2005, 09:14 AM

OK Cupid is good. Go sign up. When I was doing factory over the summer I signed up and met quite a few girls that way that I wouldn't have otherwise.

AquaFox · 09-18-2005, 06:14 PM

whats the best way to start trying to talk to girls on that?

SiNai · 09-19-2005, 08:36 AM

Just send a message, tell her she's cute, ask a few questions/try to strike up a conversation from what you see in her profile, ask for IM information.. Worked for me

Washington · 09-19-2005, 02:41 PM

I met a few people from AFF. Many fakes and many more men than women though.

HoneyPot · 09-19-2005, 11:00 PM

I have tried the 'personals' thing and well no luck yet. Another site I tried was www.okcupid.com and met two people! It was crazy times. I actually dated one guy for about three months or so. It was fun to actually meet these people.

anleja · 09-21-2005, 06:32 PM

Don't forget Yahoo Personals. I think they have a thing where you can get a free week to have contact with anyone you see, just give your credit card number and cancel it right away so they don't charge you when the week is up (the free account will last even after you cancel it).

I had a profile up there, but I took it down after... uh... let's just say I had an interesting night. Interesting = scary and regretful. But I scored. Oh yes.

trickyy · 09-21-2005, 09:26 PM

the ads seem a little suspicious, you have to admit.
they have a picture of alessandra ambrosia, or whatever her name is, with a local address.

AquaFox · 09-23-2005, 06:33 PM

mycupid is actually working for me, i just meet a really cute girl :-)

jusolson00 · 09-23-2005, 07:26 PM

well I've the good, the bad, and the ugly for ya. Due to my line of work, I don' get out socially very often in places to meet people, so I thought, what's to lose right? I've signed up for countless sites, so i'll give you my rundown on them. The good-- I like Match.com and Americansingles.com, I've met quite a few girls through them and have been pretty pleased. I didn't pay for them, i just give out my IM info in my profile schpeal. Word of wisdom,, you have to be clever as these sites will censor out any blunt phrase such as.. contact me at XXXX@XXX.com. The bad in my opionion are sites such as True.com and perfectmatch.com,, their just bad in my opinion because of the site layout and missing some features the others have such as, who has viewed your profile, last login date, ect... now the ugly are the ones you mentioned, sexsearch and AFF. I tried these and had no luck, I only got hits from people with online xxx sites and such, no genuine people in my experiences. So there you have it, take your pick and have some fun with it all. This whole internet dating deal has really been interesting to see evolve. Years back it almost seemed shameful and somewhat predatorish to say that you met somebody online. Now aday's its becoming perfectly acceptable.... oh what oh what is next for our kind???

anleja · 10-01-2005, 09:32 AM

I found a glitch in Sexsearch which will allow for anyone to look at all the profiles and send as many messages as you want.

Okay, if you are a guy with an account... make a quick fake account as a woman. Women have the means to look at all profiles and are able to send messages to whoever. As the window is open with your fake woman account, open up your browser and go to the site (so you will have the site open on two seperate windows). Sign in to your real account on this new window (the whole time keeping your fake account's window open). This should allow you to use your real account with all the features you'd normally have to pay too much to get.

It worked for me, at least. I used Firefox, if that matters.

Also... no luck finding anyone on this site. BUT it is better to find this out without actually paying to find it out. Maybe someone else will have better luck weeding through all the fake ads people put up there. Oh, and if you set up a fake woman account, I'd suggest signing up for a new hotmail account in which to put the fake account under, otherwise your main mailbox will get loaded up with guys looking for action.

robertjtucker · 10-04-2005, 01:16 PM

I have used sexsearch and hooked up twice, it was nice the only thing is the working people that want you to go site to site. I like it.

anleja · 10-08-2005, 12:45 PM

disregard what i said in post #26 about not finding any luck... heh heh.

777 · 10-08-2005, 09:21 PM

I was doing ok on cupid for a time, but when I asked for another way to get a hold of the gals, they clamed up. All in the same week. Really weird.

HiddenEgo · 10-09-2005, 02:11 PM

I'm glad to read that people have had luck with these. That's cool. I'm glad people can be real adults with a service like this. (For me, the outward appearance of these services look like the same old MuscleGuyGetsSome with BarbieBlonde, while SkinnyGuy with great personality gets none.)

spy_jmr1 · 10-09-2005, 10:54 PM

myspace.com works rather well, depending on who/what you're looking for.

it is a lot easier to wade through listings since the advanced search was re-enabled.

As with all the other ones there is a decent whack of fake profiles/people who can't read a user agreement (stupid high school freshmen girls, mostly)/general weirdos, but probably no more then any other site.

If you're into local music, (which i'm not), you'll find a lot of resources/bands on there too.

Only thing to watch out for is the amount of BLINDINGLY *horrible* colors and flashing things and sounds and videos on some of the profiles, I swear to god it's like Geocities circa 1997 exploded on some of those peoples profiles.

In other words I would recomend going in there with firefox armed with a decent adblock list

Not only for the flash ad's that they like to put up, but for the crap that people put in their profile intentionally...

As far as how it works, works pretty good for me!

AquaFox · 10-10-2005, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by spy_jmr1

I swear to god it's like Geocities circa 1997 exploded on some of those peoples profiles.

YOU SAID IT EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!

I have a new high end laptop and half those video clustered stupid flashy ugly over done pages clog my machine down to a stand still!

klined · 11-03-2005, 01:24 PM

Waste of time... Unless you are a chick. Most ads are fake, but there is a million to one girl/guy ratio.

777 · 11-04-2005, 08:40 AM

Tell me about it. I'm considering going to book stores and chat up the gals that hang out near the stuff I read. And video game stores.

doncalypso · 11-04-2005, 01:04 PM

I've gotten no luck with OKCupid.com... Nobody's checked my profile, and none of the people to whom I sent private messages responded (except for a rare few).

I think internet dating and adult personals are total bullshit.

Nimetic · 11-05-2005, 05:06 PM

Tried some years ago... Look it can be a total waste of time... Or not. : >

I'd often decide that even with a low score rate - if you go to the bookstore, gym, cafe or whatever and don't meet anyone, well at least to did stuff that you enjoy.

Alternatively... if I send a couple of emails... it can take hours. If I get no response well then you've probably just burned through what was a perfectly good Saturday/Sunday morning. Sitting at home in fron to the PC.

So my advice... do it occassionally. But keep up with your regular activities. Online stuff is probably good for single guys on rainy days.

Scrub0 · 11-06-2005, 07:23 PM

for pretty much anyone in Alberta, nexopia.com is kool. my buddy met & fucked six girls from that site, in the space of two months or so. myspace is good also, for the reasons spy_jmr1 mentioned. only downfall is the kids with twenty music videos playing amidst shitty flash animations & scrolling text on top of a garish background in their profiles...shit makes you go blind.

09-12-2005, 01:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
greyeyes ham on rye would be nice Location: I don't even know anymore	has anyone tried those online adult personals? Has anyone on here tried anything like AdultFinder or SexSearch? They intrigue me and I was hoping I could get your opinions or experiences. __________________ I'm kind of jealous of the life I'm supposedly leading. - Zach Braff

09-13-2005, 01:36 PM	#2 (permalink)
Mr Honest Crazy	Woah everyone's scared to come clean on this! I signed up years ago and met a couple of ladies here in the UK. Had fun and sex but not long term relationship Watch out as many of the ladies will be hookers. Take care and have fun whatever happens. I've haven't used them in several years and now I'm 99% close to being engaged so they are out of the question! __________________ Human beings : who could ever claim to like them all?

09-15-2005, 05:51 AM	#3 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	I have... it's all bullshit. You can't respond to messages or send any unless you'rea subscribed member, and often the hits you get are from fakes who are just trying to push their amateur porn webpages on you. It's all bullshit. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

09-16-2005, 11:24 AM	#4 (permalink)
AquaFox WaterDog	i allways been curious about those too... i wanted to try it and see if it worked... but i don't really want to use my credit card for stuff like that online __________________ ...AquaFox...

09-16-2005, 11:25 AM	#5 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	didnt use those...used redpersonals.com thats where I met Dave...and everybody knows how that turned out __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

09-16-2005, 01:35 PM	#6 (permalink)
fightnight Insane Location: The lovely Northeast	The ones you quoted above seem to me to be a really expensive way to do what you can do on craigslist.

09-16-2005, 05:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
AquaFox WaterDog	how much do subsriptions do these costs on average? __________________ ...AquaFox...

09-16-2005, 06:11 PM	#9 (permalink)
Johnny Pyro Hey Now! Location: Massachusetts (Redneck, white boy town. I hate it here.)	I've never been on one, but it's usually 30 bucks a month. The online one that I've seen work the best is "Match.com" My friend went on it and the outcome was good. Three girls! He's not dating them anymore, but he did get to.....you know. His profile is still up there right now. Its been like 2 months for him. However my other friend got nothing. Alot of people are on that from all over the United States. He showed me how it worked and I was pretty impressed. __________________ "From delusion lead me to truth, from darkness lead me to light, from death lead me to eternal life. - Sheriff John Wydell

09-16-2005, 08:34 PM	#11 (permalink)
AquaFox WaterDog	what are the ages on those generally? i've heard stories about a big singles meet in my city and two guys my age went and ended up being the only people under 30 i'm about 21 __________________ ...AquaFox...

09-17-2005, 10:25 AM	#12 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	I have never used one, but I probably would. I don't like to go out to bars or night clubs that often, so it may be harder for me to find someone if I was thrown out into the dating pool again. I would not look past using those to get used to dating again and get up some self esteem. __________________ You don't know from fun.

09-17-2005, 10:45 AM	#13 (permalink)
DEI37 Go faster! Location: Wisconsin	The real problem that I have with AFF is that the price is out of line, really, and you have to pay to do anything other than browse. We use the swinger sites, since that's what we do anyways, and that's worked out wonderfully. __________________ Generally speaking, if you were to get what you really deserve, you might be unpleasantly surprised.

09-17-2005, 01:08 PM	#14 (permalink)
bennystone Upright Location: north san diego county	Here is the ONE answer you've been waiting for! The best online personal site on the web is called OKCupid.com. It's absolutely free, and you can contact people through it. I don't know how well the matching service works, I just browse people in my area personally. I've met a couple great girls using it. Plus, the site has thousands of fun tests and stuff to take. Go crazy! Benny __________________ "In this world of uncertainty there's one thing you can be sure of and that is that you can never be sure of anything."

09-17-2005, 08:40 PM	#16 (permalink)
AquaFox WaterDog	lol, i just did the mycupid thing and i matched to this girl actually was just starting to talk to this month, that i knew back in highschool, very cool __________________ ...AquaFox...

09-18-2005, 09:14 AM	#17 (permalink)
SiNai Dreams In Digital Location: Iowa	OK Cupid is good. Go sign up. When I was doing factory over the summer I signed up and met quite a few girls that way that I wouldn't have otherwise. __________________ I can't seem to remember now What it was like- to live life, before you.. symbiont

09-18-2005, 06:14 PM	#18 (permalink)
AquaFox WaterDog	whats the best way to start trying to talk to girls on that? __________________ ...AquaFox...

09-19-2005, 08:36 AM	#19 (permalink)
SiNai Dreams In Digital Location: Iowa	Just send a message, tell her she's cute, ask a few questions/try to strike up a conversation from what you see in her profile, ask for IM information.. Worked for me __________________ I can't seem to remember now What it was like- to live life, before you.. symbiont

09-19-2005, 02:41 PM	#20 (permalink)
Washington Insane Location: somewhere cool	I met a few people from AFF. Many fakes and many more men than women though. __________________ there is no absolute, only the moment.

09-19-2005, 11:00 PM	#21 (permalink)
HoneyPot Crazy Location: Nunya	I have tried the 'personals' thing and well no luck yet. Another site I tried was www.okcupid.com and met two people! It was crazy times. I actually dated one guy for about three months or so. It was fun to actually meet these people. __________________ Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.

09-21-2005, 06:32 PM	#22 (permalink)
anleja disconnected Location: ignoreland	Don't forget Yahoo Personals. I think they have a thing where you can get a free week to have contact with anyone you see, just give your credit card number and cancel it right away so they don't charge you when the week is up (the free account will last even after you cancel it). I had a profile up there, but I took it down after... uh... let's just say I had an interesting night. Interesting = scary and regretful. But I scored. Oh yes.

09-21-2005, 09:26 PM	#23 (permalink)
trickyy ►	the ads seem a little suspicious, you have to admit. they have a picture of alessandra ambrosia, or whatever her name is, with a local address.

09-23-2005, 06:33 PM	#24 (permalink)
AquaFox WaterDog	mycupid is actually working for me, i just meet a really cute girl :-) __________________ ...AquaFox...

09-23-2005, 07:26 PM	#25 (permalink)
jusolson00 Tilted	well I've the good, the bad, and the ugly for ya. Due to my line of work, I don' get out socially very often in places to meet people, so I thought, what's to lose right? I've signed up for countless sites, so i'll give you my rundown on them. The good-- I like Match.com and Americansingles.com, I've met quite a few girls through them and have been pretty pleased. I didn't pay for them, i just give out my IM info in my profile schpeal. Word of wisdom,, you have to be clever as these sites will censor out any blunt phrase such as.. contact me at XXXX@XXX.com. The bad in my opionion are sites such as True.com and perfectmatch.com,, their just bad in my opinion because of the site layout and missing some features the others have such as, who has viewed your profile, last login date, ect... now the ugly are the ones you mentioned, sexsearch and AFF. I tried these and had no luck, I only got hits from people with online xxx sites and such, no genuine people in my experiences. So there you have it, take your pick and have some fun with it all. This whole internet dating deal has really been interesting to see evolve. Years back it almost seemed shameful and somewhat predatorish to say that you met somebody online. Now aday's its becoming perfectly acceptable.... oh what oh what is next for our kind???

10-01-2005, 09:32 AM	#26 (permalink)
anleja disconnected Location: ignoreland	I found a glitch in Sexsearch which will allow for anyone to look at all the profiles and send as many messages as you want. Okay, if you are a guy with an account... make a quick fake account as a woman. Women have the means to look at all profiles and are able to send messages to whoever. As the window is open with your fake woman account, open up your browser and go to the site (so you will have the site open on two seperate windows). Sign in to your real account on this new window (the whole time keeping your fake account's window open). This should allow you to use your real account with all the features you'd normally have to pay too much to get. It worked for me, at least. I used Firefox, if that matters. Also... no luck finding anyone on this site. BUT it is better to find this out without actually paying to find it out. Maybe someone else will have better luck weeding through all the fake ads people put up there. Oh, and if you set up a fake woman account, I'd suggest signing up for a new hotmail account in which to put the fake account under, otherwise your main mailbox will get loaded up with guys looking for action.

10-04-2005, 01:16 PM	#27 (permalink)
robertjtucker Upright Location: Durham, NC	I have used sexsearch and hooked up twice, it was nice the only thing is the working people that want you to go site to site. I like it.

10-08-2005, 12:45 PM	#28 (permalink)
anleja disconnected Location: ignoreland	disregard what i said in post #26 about not finding any luck... heh heh.

10-08-2005, 09:21 PM	#29 (permalink)
777 drawn and redrawn Location: Some where in Southern California	I was doing ok on cupid for a time, but when I asked for another way to get a hold of the gals, they clamed up. All in the same week. Really weird. __________________ "I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip." Roger Zelazny

10-09-2005, 02:11 PM	#30 (permalink)
HiddenEgo Registered User	I'm glad to read that people have had luck with these. That's cool. I'm glad people can be real adults with a service like this. (For me, the outward appearance of these services look like the same old MuscleGuyGetsSome with BarbieBlonde, while SkinnyGuy with great personality gets none.)

10-09-2005, 10:54 PM	#31 (permalink)
spy_jmr1 Upright	myspace.com works rather well, depending on who/what you're looking for. it is a lot easier to wade through listings since the advanced search was re-enabled. As with all the other ones there is a decent whack of fake profiles/people who can't read a user agreement (stupid high school freshmen girls, mostly)/general weirdos, but probably no more then any other site. If you're into local music, (which i'm not), you'll find a lot of resources/bands on there too. Only thing to watch out for is the amount of BLINDINGLY horrible colors and flashing things and sounds and videos on some of the profiles, I swear to god it's like Geocities circa 1997 exploded on some of those peoples profiles. In other words I would recomend going in there with firefox armed with a decent adblock list Not only for the flash ad's that they like to put up, but for the crap that people put in their profile intentionally... As far as how it works, works pretty good for me!

11-03-2005, 01:24 PM	#33 (permalink)
klined Upright Location: Earth	Waste of time... Unless you are a chick. Most ads are fake, but there is a million to one girl/guy ratio.

11-04-2005, 08:40 AM	#34 (permalink)
777 drawn and redrawn Location: Some where in Southern California	Tell me about it. I'm considering going to book stores and chat up the gals that hang out near the stuff I read. And video game stores. __________________ "I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip." Roger Zelazny

11-04-2005, 01:04 PM	#35 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	I've gotten no luck with OKCupid.com... Nobody's checked my profile, and none of the people to whom I sent private messages responded (except for a rare few). I think internet dating and adult personals are total bullshit. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

11-05-2005, 05:06 PM	#36 (permalink)
Nimetic Junkie Location: Melbourne, Australia	Tried some years ago... Look it can be a total waste of time... Or not. : > I'd often decide that even with a low score rate - if you go to the bookstore, gym, cafe or whatever and don't meet anyone, well at least to did stuff that you enjoy. Alternatively... if I send a couple of emails... it can take hours. If I get no response well then you've probably just burned through what was a perfectly good Saturday/Sunday morning. Sitting at home in fron to the PC. So my advice... do it occassionally. But keep up with your regular activities. Online stuff is probably good for single guys on rainy days.

11-06-2005, 07:23 PM	#37 (permalink)
Scrub0 Insane	for pretty much anyone in Alberta, nexopia.com is kool. my buddy met & fucked six girls from that site, in the space of two months or so. myspace is good also, for the reasons spy_jmr1 mentioned. only downfall is the kids with twenty music videos playing amidst shitty flash animations & scrolling text on top of a garish background in their profiles...shit makes you go blind.