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Originally Posted by abaya
Yes, this is more important than any foot massage or wine (especially when you are just trying to be her friend). Listen, don't solve, and don't be silent. Pretty much just engage in lively conversation that shows how interested you are in what she has to say. This goes farther with most women, platonically or otherwise, than just about any physical gesture I can think of.
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Don’t get me wrong, she is a beautiful woman and I do want something more than friendship with her, but I am most concerned about her relaxing. I don’t want to put any more strain on her worrying about me wanting her; we are both really shy people.
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Originally Posted by Acetylene
Vanilla! Best way to get a vanilla smell in the house is to bake a cake. Get the kind that comes out of a box, they smell really good. Then you can frost it and lick the frosting off the spoons. That would certainly relax ME!  |
mmm a cake does sound good, I already made ice cream for Friday (chocolate raspberry ice cream, real raspberry’s not the flavoring) I think I’ll head to bed bath and beyond and get one of those large vanilla scented candles.