What kind of connection is he talking about and what does it have to do with becoming romantically involved with Mary? It's possible to feel a deep connection with a person and just keep them as a friend without sex or romance coming into the picture. A vague feeling is alot to risk for years of built trust. He just met her, i mean, comon... he's only seen one aspect of her personality.
That's my problem with the "one" fascination. Isn't it just a way for people to fall in love with a fantasy?
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