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Originally Posted by aberkok
It goes without saying that listening to her problems is important, but one thing I've learned through years of experience is that just because women want you to listen to their problems, doesn't mean they want you to solve them. Just listening is often enough.
This isn't to say keep your mouth shut, though.
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Yes, this is more important than any foot massage or wine (especially when you are just trying to be her friend). Listen, don't solve, and don't be silent. Pretty much just engage in lively conversation that shows how interested you are in what she has to say. This goes farther with most women, platonically or otherwise, than just about any physical gesture I can think of.