Quote:
|
Originally Posted by 5757
JumpinJesus - My situation is almost as yours was. Actually it's exactly the same. My only problem is I'm not exactly a social butterfly, so getting out and meeting people will be kind of difficult for me.
I don't feel and sadness or pain through this divorce. I stopped loving him shortly after we were married. I am grateful for that. 
So, if I can just spread my wings and fly.. I should be okay. I've never been on a date before. Strange huh. I never even went on a date with my husband. We met in school - got married. Never went out. 
I live in San Fran and I know there is alot to do - just no one to do it with! Hopefully this move to Vegas will help.
I don't think I will be considering marriage again for a looooong time! |
Trust me, getting out was difficult for me, too. I'm usually introverted and keep just a small circle of friends. I had to force myself to go places alone at first. My initial thoughts were that people were staring at me for being out alone. Of course, what I realized was that sometimes being alone gave others the chance to approach me since I wasn't occupied in other company.
Once I got used to it, I almost preferred going out alone. It allowed me so much time to get to know myself outside of a relationship.