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There's no point in his telling Jen yet... not unless he's done something or plans to do something about it. Cooling the jets is the best idea. The new person... may be the best thing ever to happen to him, but honestly, there's no way of knowing and it's pretty unlikely that she's so much better than Jen. I don't suppose he happens to be near his goal of paying off the bills/etc that will make it possible to get the rings? Fear is a subtle motivator sometimes... insidious.
Just remember (and this is coming from a woman)... she may be hot and interesting and wonderful, but someone, somewhere, is sick of putting up with her shit.
Edit: Pyro... that's just not true. Take it from someone who is in love, and has discussed this idea with other people who are actually in love... Love isn't perfect. It's hard work, and it's wonderful, and sometimes you can have a crush on someone else and it has nothing to do with your true feelings for your SO. I'm in love, I'm not dead.
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My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.
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