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Originally Posted by Sage
I like the puppy analogy. Seriously, tho, tell him to wait it out. Instant knee-jerk attraction happens to the best of us, but when you find someone you can be with forever, who (after three years, like Jen) still is all PDA with you and loves you just the way you are... well, it'd be totally folly to give that up for some woman he just met.
Time reveals all things... tell him to heel a little!
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My words exactly Sage.
Tell him to wait a bit and feelings will become more and more apparent and more precise. A similar incident happened to me as well. I basically really fell for my best friend's sister (who is 3 years younger than me, and still in high school, while I'm just a freshman in university). Me and her got close while we all camped together with her family. I decided to just wait. Maybe it's just one of those things. I didn't want to screw anything up, especially since it was my best friend's LITTLE sister. I felt guilty, but I really liked the girl. But still, I decided to wait it out and although the outcome was "meh", I think I did the right thing. Unless she liked me as well (I think she did), I don't think I should have made the first move, considering my age difference.
So, yeah. Tell your friend to wait a bit. See if it makes things more precise and straight forward. If it doesn't, make another thread and tell us the updates :P