I have been a therapist for 5 years. A good one helps you to see alternatives to patterns of behavior after actually
listening to what's going on with you. Not so much advice, but "have you thought about...," "tell me your thoughts on...," etc. It's a long, complicated process. Keep trying, if you like. It really can help.
And there is a reason most of us learn how to be therapists, but many refuse to go in to therapy themselves.
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Here's how life works: you either get to ask for an apology or you get to shoot people. Not both. House
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just realize that you're armed with smart but heavily outnumbered.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand