I'll go with the other poster's suggestions, and add that while it may seem extreme, it might help to have some sort of recording or specific instances in mind. You dad may not want to admit that this problem exists, but it's tough to deny it when it's laid out in front of you in a form you can't deny. I've had awkward discussions with my parents before, and I think you've got to be prepared for the fact that it's probably going to be an ongoing issue for a bit. One on hand, I believe the truth normally outs itself - albeit sometimes with a heavy price - but this woman is irrevocably a part of your family. That kind of tension sucks.
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