I have to say that I agree with you completely. I feel like I am like an american plug trying to fit into a european outlet when I am on campus most times. I have to admit that there are better opportunities in my advanced courses. Definitely I will attempt to connect elsewhere.
Another point I would like to make is whole issue of friendship itself. I don't have problems interacting with others but finding someone that feels that friendship is important (i.e. putting effor into it, being there when needed) is lacking in this area. Where I lives seems to be very transient due to our economy here. It is true that friendships change through time; however I am someone who is looking for a truely great person. I explained to a guy friend of mine that it is like how men are dating women (finding friendships) and have some of the same characteristics: Meeting them, getting to know them, and deciding if this particular person is "working out" to warrant more time and opening myself up further.
I can't explain it other than that really. I have met countless people who turn out to be selfish, condescending, needy, petty, not very interesting, or my personal favorite: a bigot. Basically all characteristic that men don't like about women in order to have a lasting romantic relationships is what I sort of go through. What's funny is I thought that I wouldn't have to deal with "dating" anymore once I had met the man of my dreams. Boy was I wrong!
Ladies Lounge, feel free to post similar "friendship dating experiences" with other females. I am sure there are some good ones out there (because I surely do).