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Originally Posted by Chuckles
just because a girl gave you her number doesn't mean all bets are off for everybody, she's still "free". What if he really liked the girl too? Do you know what they even did? Do they have a past? I mean, the way it seems is that it was just some random girl at a party that u just met. Seems to me that she wanted to go out with him more, seeing as she had given you her number, and also got his, and this time she happened to choose him. There are plenty more fish in the sea, no big deal.
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Ditto. Just because you got her number doesn't mean you had exclusive rights to her... She was fair game. After all she did give both you guys her number. If she didn't want the other guy to have it she wouldn't have given it to him. Who knows, maybe she knew you too were friends and decided to give the number to "both" of you so she wouldn't step on any toes... I doubt it though. If she didn't know then, she probably does now.
Just get over her...and don't hold any grudges against your friend. Yes I say friend too...because unless you had some sort of prior agreement, and it doesn't sound like it. Just move on...but take with you some lessons learned.
1) Life ain't fair
2)If you are interested in a girl, woman, whatever...go for it and don't expect everybody else to wait for you to act
3) Don't waste time licking your wounds, and just get back out there.
Here's what you ought to do:
A) Drop it - Don't call her. And, of he wasn't a very good friend before, decide whether you still wish to consider him a friend. If not - drop him too and move on. He doesn't sound like he was much a friend either after reading your other posts. No big deal.
B) Be your own person . Do you really want to be the kid of guy that sets back upset he didn't get the girl, or the kind of guy that will shrug it off, and go find another one?
Which type of guy do you think girls are more attracted to?
You'll be ok man...just get back out there and have some fun. That's what your supposed to be doing at this point in your life.
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Originally Posted by soma
She knows him better. I was more or less a stranger, but they didn't have a serious history with each other.
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Obviosly neither did you.... There's plenty of fish in the sea dude... go fishin!!