You've got to be kidding me. You're not angry at your "friend" as you are at getting rejected. It's simple math:
Girl gives 2 guys number.
Girl goes out with one guy.
He won, you lost. Chalk it up. Getting a girls number does not entail "DIBS."
If you want to change your classes and break it off with those "friends," so be it.. but it won't diguise the fact that you're jealous.
(Nor will using a "rat sword" to get even.)
I'm sorry if this post seems harsh, but I had a guy that lived in the dorms with me that was exactly like this. He figured that if he TALKED to a girl, he had "dibs" on her. If you evensomuch as shook her hand, you were being an inconsiderate friend. I mean honestly, what's the big loss?
(P.S. My experience would tell me that the only reason this "harassment" hurt s is because you know I'm right. If you work on the idea that getting a girls number isnt "dibs" then the harassment is taken in the light-hearted mood its probably intended in.)
If it helps, assume my attitude is the attitude the "friend" has.
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Last edited by Jinn; 09-11-2005 at 10:28 AM..
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