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Originally Posted by pigglet
Well,
Quick thoughts on the recent stuff:
1. Personally, I wouldn't change my class schedule because of this guy, unless it really was more convenient for me in some way. Otherwise, you're letting him tacitly set your schedule. In essense, fuck him.
2. Building on the "fuck him" theme - I personally wouldn't make a big display of "breaking it off" with the group of friends, and I wouldn't let fear of being harrassed dictate my actions. You don't want to hang out with them? Well, then - fuck them. Don't hang out with them. It goes like this:
Them: "Soma. We're going out. Wanna come?"
You: "No. That's alright. I've got a scintillating game of tiddlywinks I'm going to be playing. Y'all have fun."
If they do harrass you, don't react. They'll stop. It's no fun harrassing a wall, and if you are essentially a wall, they almost always stop.
Good luck.
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Thanks. Sounds good. And as for the not reacting when harassed, lets say that I'm in my dorm and they are too, and they start making fun of me. Would it help to just leave and do something else, or does that just give them the power to make me leave whenever they want to.