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Originally Posted by soma
Thoughts? Anyone have advice on breaking off a friendship with an unkind and (dare I say) abusive person?
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Well, I have a similar experience. Cept that mine actually involved me actually having a relationship with a girl. One guy who was supposed to be my friend just decides to go up to her and ask her out even though he knew she was going out with me. Long story short is that she chose him, they treated each other like shit, broke up, and I get something to laugh at.
Though I do admit, that every time I saw him for a while after, I had a large urge to punch him square in the nose.
As for breaking up the relationship, that's easy. Just don't hang out with him anymore. Don't call him, if he calls, you can either tell him the truth - something along the lines of "i don't want to hang out with you anymore" or something not so direct - just keep telling him you're busy.
Of course this could be more difficult if you guys have the same circle of friends. Such was the case with me and the other guy. But fortunately, I had more than 1 circle of friends, so it worked out fine.