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Plain and simple, he's going to fuck up his life. I know how addicting WoW is. nwlinkvxd plays it any chance he gets...
But that's not the point. I know it seems horrible to say, but you should just calm down about it. People learn from mistakes, typically, and you aren't his parent (point being- you can't sit on him and make sure he does his job, etc.). I would say that you should occasionally check up on his fiance and child, since you are so concerned for them. Offer to be a shoulder to lean on, and perhaps, if you have the energy, continue urging your friend to keep his job. His escape into the game may be his way of disappearing from his harsh responsibilities (like a child, job, wife, etc), and hence, there may be an underlying problem. Next time he harasses you in front of the guild, tell him that you and your friends care about him and his fiance- that's all.
Anyway, I hope that all makes sense...
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