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My advice? Given your cicumstances,
1. Call her when you like. No reason to wait the industry standard.
2. I would initially approach it like you're getting in touch with an old friend, etc. Don't go in all Top Gun, because...
3. She does have a boyfriend. She may not be serious about him, but these things almost always take time to really deal with. How long have they been together, or do you know? And at some point, one way or the other, she may have to deal with it, and finally
4. Talk with her about what you're thinking, get some clarification from her on what she's thinking, and if pertinent I would tell her that you're not going to start dating her until she's single. You can try it other ways, but pulling the whole "moving in while she's still with someone else" move always seems to end up being more of a pain in the ass than it's worth...plus you've started whatever relationship you'll have on seeds of dishonesty.
All that, or
5. Just get all Olivia Newton-John on her ass and make it physical. physical.
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