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1. When you say friend, how close are y'all? Your "friend" didn't seem to think much about it...are you certain it was a serious date, or that he perceived that you were seriously interested in her?
2. I wouldn't necessarily write the girl out. How well does she know you, him, etc? If they just hung out somewhere, it might not be a huge deal. Guy calls her, asks if she wants to do [x], she's bored, etc.
With that said, the fact that they managed to get in touch, while the two of you didn't doesn't bode too well. I'd take a deep breath, calm down a bit - then think through the aspect with your "friend" and try to determine how much he knew of your interest and how close y'all actually are as friends, then worry about the girl. If you've left a message at her place and she hasn't called you back, I would strongly suggest not calling her back. If she's knows about your friendship, went out with your "friend," and hasn't called you back then she's aware of the situation and is avoiding you. If your friend isn't aware that he just dick-moved you, then make him aware of it...but I wouldn't try to get him to "undo" his date. That shit has already gone down. If he knew it, then you don't have a friend. You've got a dick.
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