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the basics have already been covered. i just want to add, that since she is a virgin with no sexual experience at all, it may not just be a lack of knowing how to do things that will hold her back--part could be a lack of knowing what all there is to do. you never really know if you'll enjoy it till you try it, but most of us can get a pretty good idea on if something will turn us on or not when the situation is described.
but the mechanics of sex is not very sexy when you have no experience. the sensations are good and the idea may be intriguing--but i didn't fantasize about giving blowjobs before i'd ever done it. the concept (prior to having done it) just didn't hold a lot of appeal.
since men and women are generally wired a bit differently, you might consider reading some erotic stories with her. literotica.com has tons to choose from in a variety of interests. i know for me, discovering erotic literature definitely opened me up to trying so much more than i ever thought i would. and it might ease some of the "dirty" and "weird" thoughts too, knowing others do it and it's nothing new might make her a little more comfy trying it herself.
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