Damn.. he sounds a lot like me.
People keep telling me I need to get out more and I know I won't meet anyone at home. But going out is so out of character for me.
I'm very introverted, and something like going to the bar to try and meet girls would be very uncomfortable for me. When I'm around strangers I really don't speak unless spoken too first
I do have interests, and I have thought about joining a club, or taking a class... but in the past, I've found that in 99% of the time, the groups are all male or couples attending together. I guess I just have very male-centric interests.
On the positive side, I do have plenty of time to pursue my interests. In the past when I've miraculously had a girlfriend, she would often bug me that I spent too much time playing games etc.