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Acetylene · 09-07-2005, 08:10 AM

Carnivals are awfully loud and not everyone likes rides and junk food.

Picnic sounds like a great idea. So does Frisbee, mini-golf, or any other physical activity that won't completely destroy her hair (she might feel shy about participating fully if she thinks she'll look like a troll afterwards). If you take her roller skating you might get the chance to hold her hand so she doesn't fall! (that might be better for a second date.)

I agree that movies are a good idea only later on the in the relationship. Men who only take their girls to dinner and movies are totally boring and you want to seem as interesting and exciting as possible.

If you have a good time, then at the end of the date, say "I had a lot of fun today. Could we do this again sometime?" or something along those lines. Girls like to know they are fun and desirable and you would have to really blow it to make her refuse after only one date!

PS. If you DO do someting horrible like spill your coke down her front, DON'T PANIC. React calmly and laugh about it afterwards--she will respect you a lot more than if you fall all over yourself apologizing (although you should still say you're sorry...just don't overdo it).

09-07-2005, 08:10 AM	#9 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	Carnivals are awfully loud and not everyone likes rides and junk food. Picnic sounds like a great idea. So does Frisbee, mini-golf, or any other physical activity that won't completely destroy her hair (she might feel shy about participating fully if she thinks she'll look like a troll afterwards). If you take her roller skating you might get the chance to hold her hand so she doesn't fall! (that might be better for a second date.) I agree that movies are a good idea only later on the in the relationship. Men who only take their girls to dinner and movies are totally boring and you want to seem as interesting and exciting as possible. If you have a good time, then at the end of the date, say "I had a lot of fun today. Could we do this again sometime?" or something along those lines. Girls like to know they are fun and desirable and you would have to really blow it to make her refuse after only one date! PS. If you DO do someting horrible like spill your coke down her front, DON'T PANIC. React calmly and laugh about it afterwards--she will respect you a lot more than if you fall all over yourself apologizing (although you should still say you're sorry...just don't overdo it). __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.