Cut it off. Really. She's not ready. That's okay, that doesn't make her a horrible person... but it does make her untrustworthy, and you need that in a relationship.
To be fair, if she was abused in a previous relationship... I'd put good money on this partially being about needing to be the one in power, and not having a good education on how a relationship is supposed to work. That doesn't change the fact that you should run-don't-walk-away at least until she has stabilized herself.
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My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.
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