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manoclay · 09-05-2005, 07:44 PM

Q for the forum...

When it comes to sex-- are there certain things you have problems with? My current girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and I don't have that long a track record with other girls. Some positions are working a lot better than others, but with some we've got issues at the moment.

1) Doggystyle-- doesn't seem to be working-- I generally have a problem staying in... Often our hips don't seem to be in the right place, or the angle is wrong. This has been an issue with other girls, though it's worked out with a past gf (although with her lying flat). Any tips?

2) Her on top-- good, but her hips aren't getting as much movement as my past gfs... so I often have to help out and thrust from bottom.

3) missionary-- great, but she needs to wrap her legs around me for me to get deep in her. Feels great for both of us, but variations (legs on shoulders, etc) aren't working as well.

Hopefully these issues will get better with time, but how much of this comes down to physical compatibility? How does sex seem to work for you, from person to person? Do some things just not work with partners you've had, or are there ways to adjust to get the "typical" positions down?

09-05-2005, 07:44 PM	#1 (permalink)
manoclay Upright	Getting things to work: sex compatibility Q for the forum... When it comes to sex-- are there certain things you have problems with? My current girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and I don't have that long a track record with other girls. Some positions are working a lot better than others, but with some we've got issues at the moment. 1) Doggystyle-- doesn't seem to be working-- I generally have a problem staying in... Often our hips don't seem to be in the right place, or the angle is wrong. This has been an issue with other girls, though it's worked out with a past gf (although with her lying flat). Any tips? 2) Her on top-- good, but her hips aren't getting as much movement as my past gfs... so I often have to help out and thrust from bottom. 3) missionary-- great, but she needs to wrap her legs around me for me to get deep in her. Feels great for both of us, but variations (legs on shoulders, etc) aren't working as well. Hopefully these issues will get better with time, but how much of this comes down to physical compatibility? How does sex seem to work for you, from person to person? Do some things just not work with partners you've had, or are there ways to adjust to get the "typical" positions down?