Getting things to work: sex compatibility - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

manoclay · 09-05-2005, 07:44 PM

Q for the forum...

When it comes to sex-- are there certain things you have problems with? My current girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and I don't have that long a track record with other girls. Some positions are working a lot better than others, but with some we've got issues at the moment.

1) Doggystyle-- doesn't seem to be working-- I generally have a problem staying in... Often our hips don't seem to be in the right place, or the angle is wrong. This has been an issue with other girls, though it's worked out with a past gf (although with her lying flat). Any tips?

2) Her on top-- good, but her hips aren't getting as much movement as my past gfs... so I often have to help out and thrust from bottom.

3) missionary-- great, but she needs to wrap her legs around me for me to get deep in her. Feels great for both of us, but variations (legs on shoulders, etc) aren't working as well.

Hopefully these issues will get better with time, but how much of this comes down to physical compatibility? How does sex seem to work for you, from person to person? Do some things just not work with partners you've had, or are there ways to adjust to get the "typical" positions down?

ngdawg · 09-05-2005, 08:12 PM

Some is physical compatibility-I couldn't be on top with one guy because he was too damn big, plus I have lousy rhythm anyway . Doggy style is really just a matter of position, maybe her hips need to be higher toward you, ie; she would rest on her arms, ass way up. I've found lying flat not to work as well.
With missionary, have you tried her knees bent flat to her chest? That feels good and there's less 'slippage'.
Many times, younger and inexperienced women don't realize how much they have to contribute to the 'thrust', having to synchronize with the guy; instead they leave the work to him and that too can cause things to not 'fit' and slip.

tec-9-7 · 09-05-2005, 08:25 PM

Doggy is tricky. It has worked best for me in the past w/ my g/f's head down in the pillows and her butt up and out - angle is everything in doggy.

I actually tend to like cowgirl best - if your g/f is having problems w/ motion, you guys obviously need to be practicing more!

You may want to try from the side as well - that position can offer some good access in a number of ways!

Irishsean · 09-05-2005, 09:12 PM

Practice, practice, practice!

Besides being healthy, its also fun!

snowy · 09-05-2005, 09:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ngdawg

Many times, younger and inexperienced women don't realize how much they have to contribute to the 'thrust', having to synchronize with the guy; instead they leave the work to him and that too can cause things to not 'fit' and slip.

This is the truth, plain and simple. Practice, practice, practice...more sex and good communication is the only thing that will fix these problems!

09-05-2005, 07:44 PM	#1 (permalink)
manoclay Upright	Getting things to work: sex compatibility Q for the forum... When it comes to sex-- are there certain things you have problems with? My current girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and I don't have that long a track record with other girls. Some positions are working a lot better than others, but with some we've got issues at the moment. 1) Doggystyle-- doesn't seem to be working-- I generally have a problem staying in... Often our hips don't seem to be in the right place, or the angle is wrong. This has been an issue with other girls, though it's worked out with a past gf (although with her lying flat). Any tips? 2) Her on top-- good, but her hips aren't getting as much movement as my past gfs... so I often have to help out and thrust from bottom. 3) missionary-- great, but she needs to wrap her legs around me for me to get deep in her. Feels great for both of us, but variations (legs on shoulders, etc) aren't working as well. Hopefully these issues will get better with time, but how much of this comes down to physical compatibility? How does sex seem to work for you, from person to person? Do some things just not work with partners you've had, or are there ways to adjust to get the "typical" positions down?

09-05-2005, 08:12 PM	#2 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	Some is physical compatibility-I couldn't be on top with one guy because he was too damn big, plus I have lousy rhythm anyway . Doggy style is really just a matter of position, maybe her hips need to be higher toward you, ie; she would rest on her arms, ass way up. I've found lying flat not to work as well. With missionary, have you tried her knees bent flat to her chest? That feels good and there's less 'slippage'. Many times, younger and inexperienced women don't realize how much they have to contribute to the 'thrust', having to synchronize with the guy; instead they leave the work to him and that too can cause things to not 'fit' and slip. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

09-05-2005, 09:12 PM	#4 (permalink)
Irishsean edited for content Location: Austin, TX	Practice, practice, practice! Besides being healthy, its also fun! __________________ There are no absolute rules of conduct, either in peace or war. Everything depends on circumstances. Leon Trotsky

09-05-2005, 08:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
tec-9-7 Insane Location: Rainy Washington	Doggy is tricky. It has worked best for me in the past w/ my g/f's head down in the pillows and her butt up and out - angle is everything in doggy. I actually tend to like cowgirl best - if your g/f is having problems w/ motion, you guys obviously need to be practicing more! You may want to try from the side as well - that position can offer some good access in a number of ways!