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Originally Posted by tiltedbc
It's sort of build into our biology and it wouldn't take much effort on your roommates part to seduce him.
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are you outta your head? it is
not hardwired into guys to cheat. and guys who choose to cheat are not necessarily "seduced" by other women. as a female, i promise you--i've had many opportunities to be the other woman and it was not me doing the seducing.
it can be argued he made a mistake, had a weak moment, whatever--but that doesn't change the fact that he also made a choice.
if i were in this position, i'd move out asap. and i wouldn't have anything to do with either of them. i wouldn't go off on them, just let them know that i don't need people like that in my life. if they felt a connection between them and had told me before acting on it, the friendships would be worth salvaging. if they have so little respect for me that they place that low a value on our relationship(s), i don't need or want them in my life. i know i deserve better and prefer to go without than to settle for relationships like that.