Love is going to hurt....it always does. Family, friends, lovers.....everyone will hurt you at one point or another, this we call life. As we grow older things clarify somewhat (though never completely) and the pain becomes something expected and learned from, my experience shows this to be the "secret" to dealing with the inevitable hurt life will deal. There will hopefully come a time, or person that makes the pain worthwhile as they give more pleasure than pain.....it is up to you to "SEE" the pieces of sunshine scattered in the gray skies of experience.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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