piggy_annie

This is my last restort... I dont even know why i'm doing this ,I mean here sharing my problems with stranger but i'm really lost i need help.

What do you do when you lay all your trust on your sister and she uses that against you ? what do you do when you cant even trust your own sister? So the story goes i'm dating this guy and well thinks end for us with me still having so much feelings for him, i have lost everything my pride my diginity just to try to make him stay but it didnt happen so i cried over him and tell my sister so and she goes and tell him thinking it would help us get back together but it only make me look worst infront of him and more sad then i am now, and i dont know what happens next , it all seems like a dream but here i am seeing her holding hands with him and how she always tell me that shes annoyed of him and how she understands me like she's in my shoe but when she's with him its a totally different story, how two face is that! I dont want to think this of her but what am i to do, and she already have a boyfriend for crisssakes! i thought i could trust her to tell her everything and what is this crap, yes i'm sitting here in self-pity and blaming myself argh it just hurts too much. What would you do if you were in this situation?

d*d

get some perspective, these feelings will pass - learn from the experience and try not to be too hard on your sister she will be around a lot longer than this guy

william

Shame to hear about your sister. Sometimes life is like that, and you find that siblings are no better than your friends. Some you stay close to, others you move on from. I've had to do that from my own sister. It sucks to think about, but that's the way some people are.
Learn and grow from this. If the BF is truly history, let yourself move on.
As far as the sis, you could try to talk to her. It's not right what she has done, but she may have been thinking she was helping you.

Mr Honest

From my experience there's no reason to trust your family over a close friend and some 'friends' would happily steal a lover from anyone.
Finding someone to trust is hard but it's a great feeling when you do. They won't always let you down. Hang on in there!

Misz

Tell her Boyfriend

piggy_annie

thank everyone , its sad when i think we're all human once i met someone i lay my trust on them, they dont even have to work for it, the relationship between my sister and I were never good, just recently I was dating him and tell her everything about that me and her got closer but then this happen. It hurts alot , and just got a friend that stole from me ay ya ya. *sigh*

tecoyah

Love is going to hurt....it always does. Family, friends, lovers.....everyone will hurt you at one point or another, this we call life. As we grow older things clarify somewhat (though never completely) and the pain becomes something expected and learned from, my experience shows this to be the "secret" to dealing with the inevitable hurt life will deal. There will hopefully come a time, or person that makes the pain worthwhile as they give more pleasure than pain.....it is up to you to "SEE" the pieces of sunshine scattered in the gray skies of experience.

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thingstodo

Just learn from the experience. And also learn that it's all a part of life.

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