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I admit, I can get feeling the same way -- as if I do it all. That was causing some tension between Lebell and me. Upon talking with each other, we agreed that he would have a to do list with priorities highlighted. When he finishes the tasks, he marks them off. We check in with one another about once a week. When I'm working, this becomes even more important.
The list helped me to see how many home maintenance and big projects he takes on. Although on a day to day basis it may not appear he does as much as me, he does, just in a different way.
As for projects that I want done, he is happy to do them the way he wants to do them and when he wants to do them. Once he says he'll do something, I need to be patient and let him do it, even if it is days later. It will get done!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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