Just say it.
Say Anything.
Express your interest, because left unsaid nothing happens.
It's like the lottery...
To win it, you have to play it.
And even though I'm a big flirt and a good bullshit artist,
When it actually comes down to ASKING,
I am terrible at it...I always wait to long and the moment passes
Or I screw up because I just blurt.
My anxiousness and anxiety gets the best of me.
Maybe this is why I get with ladies who approach me more often.
You need to interact.
You need to just put yourself out there.
And yes, you might get shot down,
Then again, you might not.
But how will you know, if you don't try.
Just talk with her, let it build, keep it casual, and then invite her to something simple.
Don't make it sudden, over dramatic, or extravagant.
When it does happen well for me, it happens just that way.
Anything else I've built up in my mind always backfires.
Just keep it cool, and try.
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