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Originally Posted by maleficent
A gentleman caller wished to weigh in on this topic: he makes a very good point
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This gentlemen made some good points.
The first six months of my marriage, i was doing Everything and i was in your same boat, i was resenting him for it. And when i would ask something of my husband domestic-wise he wouldn't do it the way i quite wanted...
one day he said "just tell me exactly what you need me to do and i'll do it."
I always thought i'd be demeaning him or something to say specifically How to vacum, but that is just what he wanted me to do.
Now when i need him to do something, i take the 2-3 minutes and explain how i need it to be done and he commences to do it that way.
no more fighting, i just needed more communication
men... can't live with 'em and can't live without 'em
Sweetpea