It helps if you know that a part of your body (aside from your dick) is particularly responsive to stimuli. For me, it's my nipples; any attention there will get me hard instantly. Whenever I feel myself going soft, I just tell the girl to lick/play with them for a bit. Works every time. For other guys, it's earlobes, neck, etc. One of my friends even gets very turned on when a girl licks the inside of his elbow! Different strokes and all that...
As for the captain bailing on me, yeah it's happened before. Alcohol is the worst, since it slows down your bloodflow. As we all know, a lot of people get very frisky when on the sauce, so this can get frustrating. Therefore, I never try to have sex when I drink. Sure, I can make out and do some heavy petting, but if the girl wants to take it up a notch, I just tell her that I'd rather be sober, so that I can give her all the attention she deserves. Most girls have never been put off by that (in fact, they're flattered), and the rare one that does ain't worth your time anyway. Hell, if you still want to make her feel good and she wants it, then just go down on her or something, I don't think she'll mind that!
Bottom line is: girls usually understand. Whether it's psychological or purely mechanical, the trouble your having happens to pretty much every guy at least once. Just be honest about it (too drunk/high/tired/nervous) and play it cool.
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Last edited by Bob Biter; 08-27-2005 at 10:20 AM..
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