As stated before, take it slow, and be patient. Let her move at her own pace. This will allow her to feel comfortable with you, and what she is doing, and will give her the "courage" to try new things. Nobody knows everything from the start, and for some the "learning curve" might be greater than others. The most important thing I've found was to talk with them, and find out their likes/dislikes/ and fantasies. That will do nothing but increase the bond of trust that will make her more comfortable with you.
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