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Originally Posted by ohh_shesus
My family keeps asking the dreaded question: When are you going to have a baby? Well, for one I'm not too keen of the thought of motherhood.
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Well then be blunt. Tell your family to kiss off, and don't have a kid. If they want a baby so bad, tell THEM to have it. One of my pet peeves is people pressuring others to have children. Children are not a requirement for a happy lifestyle. I know many childfree people who are quite happy with their situation, and who have a hell of a lot more freedom than those of us with kid(s).
And if you're not keen on the idea of being a parent then for chrissake don't have a kid. You'll be miserable, and the kid will be cheated.
And btw, contrary to the popular argument I hear people use when trying to convince someone not to have a kid, it is NOT selfish to not want one.