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i'm with the above posters. but i'd also add, that even if his family is always rude to you and are never accepting--be polite. i know that is so easy to say and much harder to do! doing anything else will only create more friction between you and her which will eventually lead to friction between you and him. you can't control his mother's behavior or feelings, but you can control your response to it.
if he has a problem with the way his family treats you, he should be the one to bring it up to them. if it gets to the point that you want to make him choose--make sure you are prepared to lose.
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