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Listen to Mal, she is very wise. But I also have some in-sight.
To you 4 months seems like a long time, however to his family it is not. I know that my family wasn't welcoming of outside people. It took my mom almost a year and the rest of my family about 3 years to accept JJ and he is a wonderful guy. It's not that they didn't like him, they are just close knit and outsiders are not blood. My dad's side of the family didn't accept my uncle's wife for about 3 years. Holidays for very uncomfortable to say the least.
I would say that if you really like this guy to ignore the comments and continue be nice to his family. If your bf doesn't see what his mom and grandma are doing then you can't expect him too. That is his family and I have found out that family will get chosen over gfs. Be civil and in time, his family will be fond of you. However, if you aren't civil, the relationship will most likely not work out.
Good luck!
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