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JP, that is an answer I assumed at least some of you would give. While it certainly hasn't been ruled out if this sort of behavior escelates on her part, this is not enough for me to yet call it quits. I find I really like this girl, and other than this issue, we've gotten along great.
Mal, no, we haven't had sex. Nor do I see it at anytime in the near future. I'm fine with that. There is definitly more going on than a chaste kiss on the cheek however. You make a good point by pointing out some hypocrisy there, it was not something I'd really thought about.
As for a third person, I still think she disapproved, but me now being alone with a girl definitely exacerbated things.
My big worry in all of this is wondering if this is just the tip of the proverbial iceberg or is it an isolated incident. I tend to have opinions skewed a little bit to the left and I fear there may be clashes in the future if she is very right. I don't feel like I am holding back at all with anything, but I am now concerned that she is, and as our relationship progresses and devlops, more stuff like this will come out. Or it may be nothing.
I guess the only thing I could do is ask, but will she be forward about it or downplay it? I was forewarned by a mutual friend she tends to try to ignore things that bother her, and she may hold back, and I can attest from personal experience that getting her to talk about her feelings is like pulling teeth. Guh.
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