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Probably he was raised in a home where mom did it all. Mine was and it took years to get him to understand that I am NOT his mother and will not iron his tshirts, make foods that I'd never eat, etc. He never cleaned house, but he's real quick to tell me I don't do it correctly and hovers over the kids as they do chores.
Their definitions of what a wife and mother are made when they are boys and they take that with them as they marry and have kids-so called 'traditional' households are spoilers.
Until your definitions are clearly understood, the conflicts will continue.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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