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Originally Posted by abaya
Heh, well they ask for sex, don't they?  Yeah, this is an age-old question. Why do most women prefer to live in neat and tidy places, while most men are content to live in a trash heap? (Again, I'm not saying ALL are like this, but I've yet to know any man who give a damn.) I can't sort it out myself, and I sort out human behavior as a living (I'm an anthropologist)... |
What I don't understand is that hubby does NOT like living in a trash heap. If I let things go around her he WILL complain. Not in a mean way but asking me to do this or that. Usually I'll respond with - how about YOU do it. He'll often promise to vacuum then but I can wait DAYS before that will get done. He does not enjoy the clutter or mess but he's not willing to take care of the problem himself. He has not done laundry since I broke my foot - and that was only washing, drying, and bringing up a basket of clean. He has not done dishes in YEARS. I have complained for years. Nothing seems to get through the thick skull. What baffles me is that my Dad did dishes on a regular basis as well as other chores. I'm not accustomed to dealing with a male who is completely unwilling to do ANY domestic duties at all.
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