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Martian · 08-19-2005, 04:15 PM

I had a few before my current girl. I'm in the same boat as those above who say the sex is perfect (some people here may have read about our exploits). I've had prior experience to compare it with and it's still the best I've ever had.

If you want to know if physically it feels the same, the answer is yes and no. The mechanics are the same with every girl, but not every girl is the same. Some are bigger or smaller, or may have different aspects of it. Some girls are able to take more of your penis into their mouth or less during oral, etc. I've heard of it happening (although it's never been an issue with my thoroughly average sized member) that a girl isn't even to take the whole thing into her, which I'd think would just be uncomfortable for all parties.

My girlfriend and I had this discussion after a bit of a tryst the other day. Both of us have had prior experience and we were comparing some of our prior experiences. We've both said pretty much from the beginning that this is the best either of us have ever had, so we're comfortable talking about what's in the past. And yeah, the conclusion we came to is the same as above. It's all in the nuance and every so often you get two people who just seem to fit.

Here's the catch though. You love your girlfriend and you enjoy having sex with her, that much is a given. What if you were to experience other women (even, for the sake of argument, with her blessing) and find out that she's actually not very good at all? Better to just let it be and enjoy what you've got. It doesn't matter what you're missing if you don't know you're missing it.

Also consider that it gets better with practice. I get the idea that neither of you are particularly experienced; the more you do it, the better it'll be. There's just a bit of a learning curve, is all.

Right. I'm going to stop now, otherwise I may never shut up.

08-19-2005, 04:15 PM	#14 (permalink)
Martian Young Crumudgeon Location: Canada	I had a few before my current girl. I'm in the same boat as those above who say the sex is perfect (some people here may have read about our exploits). I've had prior experience to compare it with and it's still the best I've ever had. If you want to know if physically it feels the same, the answer is yes and no. The mechanics are the same with every girl, but not every girl is the same. Some are bigger or smaller, or may have different aspects of it. Some girls are able to take more of your penis into their mouth or less during oral, etc. I've heard of it happening (although it's never been an issue with my thoroughly average sized member) that a girl isn't even to take the whole thing into her, which I'd think would just be uncomfortable for all parties. My girlfriend and I had this discussion after a bit of a tryst the other day. Both of us have had prior experience and we were comparing some of our prior experiences. We've both said pretty much from the beginning that this is the best either of us have ever had, so we're comfortable talking about what's in the past. And yeah, the conclusion we came to is the same as above. It's all in the nuance and every so often you get two people who just seem to fit. Here's the catch though. You love your girlfriend and you enjoy having sex with her, that much is a given. What if you were to experience other women (even, for the sake of argument, with her blessing) and find out that she's actually not very good at all? Better to just let it be and enjoy what you've got. It doesn't matter what you're missing if you don't know you're missing it. Also consider that it gets better with practice. I get the idea that neither of you are particularly experienced; the more you do it, the better it'll be. There's just a bit of a learning curve, is all. Right. I'm going to stop now, otherwise I may never shut up. __________________ I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said - Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame