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My Wife has brought this up a few times in the past, saying that she's worried about me only having been with her, and what if some day I decide that my lack of experience with others is something that bothers me?
I've tried to reassure her and she hasnt asked me in a long time, so maybe she's taken it to heart. Who knows... all I know is that she is amazing and satisfies me completely, so I've never had that desire. For me, the biggest reason behind not having that desire is the intense emotions that we feel for eachother. I dont think I could come anywhere close to those kinds of feelings with another woman, so the feeling would be purely physical and that would be extremely dull.
Sex isnt supposed to feel a "certain way", really. I imagine it feels different depending on the person. My Wife and I once joked about the "Does size matter?" thing. Myself, I'm almost exactly at "average", but she has experienced a guy that was much, much larger than average. The sex? Horrible - it didnt matter how big it was when he was done in thirty seconds. So, if the situation was flipped around, what if my Wife had only ever experienced me, not knowing what an above-average man felt like? What if it got to the point where she just *had* to go experience it, and hooked up with that dude. Kind of a waste eh?
The only question you need to ask yourself is if it feels good. Even if there's a problem there, it can probably be corrected if you both work on it together. If there isnt a problem, then you need to assure your woman that she's outstanding, cause it sounds like she's worried!
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