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justjt · 08-18-2005, 10:37 AM

Yeah bro I feel for yah.

Whats happened here is that now your is attached to some degree and there isn't a do over button on this one.
You have opened that door to your heart and feelings that should in my opinion be protected like Fort Knox or until someone simply rips that door off its hinges....have creeped out and it sucks.
I usually try and find some positive twist on the crazy shit life throws at us...but in this situation its tuff. Its not like you can just gather all your feelings for her, take them back and start over. Cause at this point to try and only be her friend would actually be just teasing yourself with the hope that she will suddenly want to bring you out of the friendzone...and if you do that it's not being fair to yourself.
I am not the love expert by any definition...have had my share of shitty beginnings and endings to relationships (see my post in tilted literature where I tried to contribute to the forum.. theres a closure letter I wrote at the end of my last real serious relationship).
But man if it was me and I was you....like I said call this one and move on...it sounds like she won't be to broken up about it...you gotta look out for yourself before your heart really gets broken...cause those wounds seem to heal the slowest.

Good luck man.

"Look around you and if those that look back don't like what they see...fuck it..tell them to look the other way. Then look inside yourself cause liking what you see there is whats really important!"

08-18-2005, 10:37 AM	#15 (permalink)
justjt Tilted Location: O.C. California	tuff situation Yeah bro I feel for yah. Whats happened here is that now your is attached to some degree and there isn't a do over button on this one. You have opened that door to your heart and feelings that should in my opinion be protected like Fort Knox or until someone simply rips that door off its hinges....have creeped out and it sucks. I usually try and find some positive twist on the crazy shit life throws at us...but in this situation its tuff. Its not like you can just gather all your feelings for her, take them back and start over. Cause at this point to try and only be her friend would actually be just teasing yourself with the hope that she will suddenly want to bring you out of the friendzone...and if you do that it's not being fair to yourself. I am not the love expert by any definition...have had my share of shitty beginnings and endings to relationships (see my post in tilted literature where I tried to contribute to the forum.. theres a closure letter I wrote at the end of my last real serious relationship). But man if it was me and I was you....like I said call this one and move on...it sounds like she won't be to broken up about it...you gotta look out for yourself before your heart really gets broken...cause those wounds seem to heal the slowest. Good luck man. "Look around you and if those that look back don't like what they see...fuck it..tell them to look the other way. Then look inside yourself cause liking what you see there is whats really important!" Last edited by justjt; 08-18-2005 at 11:00 AM..