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Dude, in this situation, what you should do, is stop asking her if you're in the 'friend' zone. Just stick around, be nice to her still, but shop around too.
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I only mentioned the friend zone thing two times, initially when I said I liked her and few days later when the conversation came up again. I haven't been keyed in on her, I have been shopping aroudn, but I'm not going to find the first thing I see just for the sake of having a relationship or a date. I've never done that, I'd rather bid my time than waste my time.
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Be straight-forward and dump her now. If she hasn't called, she's either playing some kind of power-game, or she doesn't dig you in the way that you want - and never will.
Drop her, and forget all about her. You don't need to even tell her you've done it. If she phones 3 weeks later and asks you why you didn't phone, tell her it's because you were doing other things.
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I've been thinking about it.
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Yeah, you're DEFINITELY in the Friend Zone.
Just keep fishin I guess.
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I've had that feeling for a while and in the back of my mind I thought this might happen, so it's not as a big a shock. I'm disappointed since, I really get along with her, we had a lot in common, hell she's said the same thing about me. Telling me she has fun with me, finds me attractive, and i'm pretty much the male version of her. But sadly enough I think she has said these things out of pity and/or maybe not to hurt me since she wants me around otherwise when needed.
Oh well, what gets my goat more than anything is the fact she could have been straight up from the get go when I gave her the chance. At that point I could have moved on and been a good friend, but now that's in question.
I did so much for her in the last month, I feel used even though she had thanked me. Now I didn't do this to win her heart, I did what I did because I was her friend and I'd do it for anyone I know who needed help. I always do.
Well thanks for the replies.