I don't think it's unusual to be uncomfortable with it (my friend Chris tells me about his hookups and it makes me wince, and I am bi and pretty open-minded; frankly, hearing too much detail about anyone's sex life makes me a little uncomfortable) but to physically want to spew? There's something going on there, and if it was me, I would want to find the root of it, not to be politically correct but to free myself from feeling sick in response to something that's sort of disproportionate to the reaction it's causing. Then again, I'm a bit of a mental housecleaner and I don't like being at the mercy of my reactions. However, it would be perfectly understandable to just leave your reactions exactly as they are and avoid the situations that trigger them: feel free to tell him that you're really not comfortable hearing about his sex life.
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