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justjt · 08-16-2005, 08:04 PM

Everything about this shouts out trouble for you.....
Seperated could mean so many things to someone having troubles in thier relationship.
I know that when I went throught my divorce there wasn't really a seperation period...were both over it and couldn't wait for it to be over.
When I hear the "we are seperated" answer..."and it has been that way for a few months"...that says to me that there are still some feelings there on whatever side and it still could maybe work out...which would leave you holdin the shit end of the stick.

Life is to short to stress over it....chalk it up as a life experience...smile at the memories of the sex...then tell her it's time to be a big girl and handle her shit, get her divorce finalized and get set-up on her own... so it doesn't roll over into your life.
After she addresses her drama tell her to come on back by and you can continue on...if she really likes you as much as she's telling you, she will understand and wanna do the right thing......BUT!!! If she doesn't and she gets bent....then she is definately not worth the time or effort and maybe that is why she this "seperation" is happening!!
Good luck!!!

08-16-2005, 08:04 PM	#9 (permalink)
justjt Tilted Location: O.C. California	Run bro..it's gonna end bad for you... Everything about this shouts out trouble for you..... Seperated could mean so many things to someone having troubles in thier relationship. I know that when I went throught my divorce there wasn't really a seperation period...were both over it and couldn't wait for it to be over. When I hear the "we are seperated" answer..."and it has been that way for a few months"...that says to me that there are still some feelings there on whatever side and it still could maybe work out...which would leave you holdin the shit end of the stick. Life is to short to stress over it....chalk it up as a life experience...smile at the memories of the sex...then tell her it's time to be a big girl and handle her shit, get her divorce finalized and get set-up on her own... so it doesn't roll over into your life. After she addresses her drama tell her to come on back by and you can continue on...if she really likes you as much as she's telling you, she will understand and wanna do the right thing......BUT!!! If she doesn't and she gets bent....then she is definately not worth the time or effort and maybe that is why she this "seperation" is happening!! Good luck!!!