seperated can mean anything from - I'm punishing him for going out drinking with the boys and he looked at another woman and I want to see what else is out there, but really deep down I'm going to go back to him.... to He's a prick, I don't know what I was thinking when I said yes... and I'm just waiting in the papers...
I'm with young Blackthorn, above, there are plenty of available women out there,if you are having second thoughts it's because you think something isn't right (or you are scared of committment
Women are told to listen to their instincts, men shoudl be told the same thing... if you don't think it seems right.. it's not.
You are starting to get serious about her, and I think if you thought she was really availbe (meaning - she's waiting by the mailbox with pen inhand for those divorce papers) then you wouldn' be asking the question....