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I wish I had some advice for you because then I would have more friends too. I have moved a lot and really never find any 'friends'. I hang out with people I work with and stuff every once in awhile, but it is because they are there. I am one of those people who don't really like situational friendships, even though I am learning that they are all that way. I find that they are usually superficial and end when one person leaves the job.
I usually hang around coffee shops, but rarely meet anyone there. I think that friendships are hard to form after school because you don't have common things pulling you together. I also find that the friendships I make are overrated. When you get older and married, it seems that real life takes over and making time for friends can be difficult. Of course, I have been working 40 hours a week at my job and 30 hours+ a week at either a part-time job or on my Master's for the past 4 years. That doesn't leave much time for friendships. It hasn't left much time for my marriage either, but that is a different story...
But, some advice from someone who doesn't take it herself... Join clubs that interest you or take classes in something that you enjoy and may put you around people who share your interests. Other than that good luck!
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