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Old 08-12-2005, 07:54 PM   #1 (permalink)
Undercover_Man
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Need some advice about a shady person who is taking advantage of other people.

Hello. Ok. As some of you know, I live at Disney now. Well one of our room mates moved out and relocated to a different apartment. Not all of us really liked him anyways because he was a shady person. Let's call this guy Mr. Shady. Well it's been a while since he's moved out and I'm noticing that he's taking advantage of other people's friendship.

Ok. There's 3 things that I don't like about him.

1. Mr. Shady talks shit about his "friends" behind their backs.
I am aware of him talking shit about me behind my back cause he was talking to another one of my room mates and he told me what Mr. Shady told him. He also thinks he's MY friend and talks shit about other people. BTW, the other people/friends are my friends as well and most also work at the same resort.

2. He gossips about other people A.K.A. he doesn't mind his own business.
Ok. He comes to me and tells me things about his "friends" that I'm sure they wouldn't want me to hear. At least to hear from HIM. Like he comes and tells me about this girl I know that she was making out with this French guy and she also had a twosome with some other guy and a girl. Ok. I didn't need to hear that about a friend of mine (also his) in the middle of making a guests pizza.

3. He takes advantage of his friends friendship.
Ok. If these friends of his (who, remember, are also my friends) knew what kind of things I know about Mr. Shady then I'm quite sure they wouldn't be all nice and taking him to the beach and hanging out with him all the time and stuff. He acts like a great friend and talks to everyone and is funny when he's around them, but when he's around someone he apparently trusts(?), like me, he'll talk shit about them or spread information about them or whatever.

I don't know why this is bugging me so much. I'm a nice guy and I don't want him to be taking advantage of our friends friendships left and right like they're nothing to him.

So why don't I just tell one of them about what he's telling me? Well because I've done something similar with 3 or 4 other situations involving my room mates and some anger came right back at me and the people were pissed at me for some reason.

Should I just let them figure out what he's saying about them on their own or should I tell one of them that he's talking shit about him/her behind their back and/or spreading information about him/her that s/he prolly wouldn't want to be talked about amongst the other cast members. Who knows who else he's telling besides me. I feel like I can't just sit back and listen to/watch him take advantage of other people. If I should tell someone then HOW should I tell him/her without sounding like I'm "tattle taling"/ratting on this Mr. Shady?

What would YOU do?

- Undercover_Man

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